What Are Emotional Poems?

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Broken heart

Our emotions speak to us in metaphors, images and stories. These are our emotional poems. Candace Pert who wrote The Molecules of Emotion: The Science of Mind-Body Medicine (1999) believes that our body is the key to understanding our emotions. She says that our body is our unconscious mind. We experience our emotional poems in our bodies.

Emotional poems

When we talk about emotional poems there are two kinds. One is the cultural way we express emotions. In America, here are some common examples:

MetaphorEmotion
Broken hearthurt, sadness
Butterflies in my stomachnervous
Knife through my heartbetrayal
Weight of the world on my shouldersoverwhelmed, stressed
Warm heartlove
Seeing the world through rose colored glassesoptimism
Boiling overrage
Tickled pinkhappy

Metaphors

In the book Metaphors We Live By (1980), authors George Lakoff and Mark Johnson give many examples of how our language is much more metaphorical than we ever knew. Once you start looking for metaphors you will find them everywhere especially when someone is talking about emotions or feelings.

When we experience a strong emotion a feeling label such as angry or happy doesn’t seem adequate. If we are really happy we might say “I’m on top of the world” or I’m jumping with joy.” Feeling labels help us place emotions into categories but they do not express the strength and qualities of the emotion. When there is a strong emotion only a poem will do.

The poetry of everyday language

Begin to listen to the poetry of everyday language. You may need to tune your ears to this new way of listening. Logical linear language is just the facts while poetic language is so much more. A poem creates an image in your mind or an emotion in your body. Poems engage your senses. Poems can make you laugh or cry. Poems touch us in deep ways.

Our unique poems

Each of us has our own unique way of communicating through personal emotional poetry – metaphors, images and stories. Often these poem are created early in life and reflect a young child’s view of the world. Your personal poems may be items from your childhood such as toys, rocks, pillows, small shoes and other items.

Spend some time listening and looking for emotional poems. You will find them everywhere – in songs, novels and even TV dialog. This awareness will help you when you begin exploring your personal poems. These poems are the key to releasing unwanted emotions.

To get started…

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